I was writing to a friend today and this is what I said:
John and Elizabeth were very much in love and, oddly enough, still were at her death. You can't break up a happy home. Believe that. John got blinded by ambition. Women redecorate their homes when they get unhappy. Men don't ever think of doing that. They look for change in another woman's eyes. Elizabeth was a very very strong woman. John was a disappointment . She refused to divorce him and THEY kept the family together. Don't blame him, blame Rielle Hunter! That was some powerful "stuff" that was thrown in his face. Very few men can resist a younger woman. It makes them feel young again. John got caught doing what most men want to do. He is only human and monogamy (an unnatural state) is much easier for a woman.